The poem you crave to write is within you

Last week... before parting the place which has thought me many valuable lessons a well as worthy experience. Once, I said to myself, my body and soul is like a temple, therefore only goodness shall bloom within. Over the years my opinion has reformed. We are not temples to be worshiped, but a forest that grows wild. We move, wander, venture, discover and change is so constant that our way of seeing life, ultimately changes too. It doesn’t matter if that trial isn’t godly, but there is/ will be a LESSON. Use that to move into next phase. In every phase, bare in mind that, it shall, will, might, CHANGE too. Immediately, you’ll be involved in your present cognizance indeed, FOCUS, is certain there. Carve the master in you... the poem you wanted to write is within you.

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a wise word quoted by a cancerian 

 

Follow the Sun, Chase Your Dreams

In a world of moon & stars. Be a sun, burn & shine.

Nobody said that, that's my own quote. But why sun? ☀

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Moon, I like the way it word sounds.  In Egyptian culture a Moon is believed as the 'night sun'. Yet, nobody plays the role better than themselves right. Sun, shines bright through-out the day, it rises without any restrictions, dawns peacefully to rise again the next day, serving earth. A sun just arises, makes everything better for the day. A flower blooms, a tree grow its root, the drive becomes clearer, mostly, we know that a LIGHT is there. As a guide, an energy to move forward, makes us feel warm. Without it, probably we-all will be in winter, forever. (Can never imagine the coldness!) 

Similarly, if you are working towards your DREAM, keep going for it. Every day, in that 24 hours, spend time to make it work. Its' alright to move ahead with baby steps, than none! My passion has always been to be a journalist. To have the courage to speak, and speak up the right thing, factual at the same time. Studied journalism, thought me to speak with facts, in other words, proof. Being able to validate your verbal and nonverbal facts, will make you as a firm person. You'll think of truism around you. Definitely, you'll have the mindset of not being judge-mental. And that dream, still stays as dream. Perhaps, it'll happen one day. Yet, till this date. I'm working on it. In order to keep your passion burning while awaiting for your 'turn' to come. Motivate yourself by giving the reason "why you want it, so badly in the first place?" 

From the year I've graduated till now, past 3 years to be precise, and its journey is remarkably worth the sail. Rough sail I'd say~~~ 
Yet, those experiences will contribute as knowledge to draw onto my dream. My mission is solely to be an expertise of what I'm handling. That's how i think, that's what I'll teach my juniors, whoever wants to learn from me. If you happen to be an anchor of a show, talk in the way that it impresses your audience and yourself (too). After all, your number 1 fan is you, create your own identity...Even if you are selling an pair of boots, be the best seller of it, create your TM there. When a task is being assigned, DO IT with all your will, all your plans. Whether you like it or not, we can think of it later. For, there's always more to LEARN in the things that we don't accept to venture in. That is how exactly I view an obstacle. An obstacle is an opportunity is learn. 🏆 Chase the time. Or run with it. ⌛



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An impassive face, a soulful walk...

A pair of boots can make a lady feel powerful...

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Christmas bells, those colours! 

Assorted types of shoes, ladies, celebrate it!

The country girl in me said that..

a quote from both gender so that I won't sound feminist... lol. Heck if want to. 😆

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See the strength, not the gender.

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...One thing here is that, opinion differs...

Confession in profession.

Finding the right career equals to finding the other part of life's happiness and adventure. 

And confessing when we are wrong at our workplace, it can be a good thing to not repeat the same error again. Of course, it'll be way preferable if we correct our mistakes instead of waiting for other people to pin point it, perhaps we can try emend it first.

I love frank speakers. They are those who make our lives easier. If you think why? In a world that cover up torns and shows you that life's all roses. These frank ones actually made that statement false yet providing a realistic view. This is life. If you think a scenario is bothering, speak up. Confess openly, your future deed will be purified by your present action.

Not all confession will be fruitful. But confessions are worth. In our profession, daily job we are involved in, putting in so much of effort merely to achieve what's in our imaginary world. Even in personal life, confess about the things/ issues that you think its not worth responding. Or it has to be changed. Confession can be verbal or in action form. I'll do both, dependable to the situation. Happy December... such a cold evening it is... 🌏🌧📖

Survival & Passion. How identical they are?

As adults I'm sure we all are familiar with failures, rejection, detachment, falls... you name it. Above all that, we still have the little urge to fight longer. A soft voice that comes from nowhere, "Why don't you try again" or "Try again, with all your will this time". In other words, our willpower pushes beyond limits in order to find/achieve certain goals that our mind has been aiming. Some fail, some win in the process, but mostly we all learn. 


“Willpower is the ability to resist short-term temptations in order to meet long-term goals.”
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Indeed the survival instinct made us to overcome obstacles on our way, ever since stone ages, our forefathers hunt, for food, for shelter, for a safer environment. Humans are regarded as a highest form in all other species, mainly because of survival ingenuity. We survive, through hardest battles. Battles too, we survive.   

Now, why do I even emphasizing about survival. It is one of the button that pushes you to achieve your PASSION. Well, if you are wondering what your passion is. Then its time to dig in list of things that you love to do. Passion is what you'll live for, what you'll do to make your heart happier, and gain subtle mind. What is that 1 thing worth having/ fighting for the rest of your life? 

"Have you found your passion yet?" Me, I'm working on it. For me, passion is about being involved what you are attached to. And I'll say yes ONLY when my heart says the same. It is almost impossible to do a task/duty that your heart is not fond off. Choose what you want to become, a  simple example of a passion statement. 

                                                                                      On a typical Tuesday.. 😏

    Like i said, FIND your purpose to live, then fight for it. Make your way.

                                                                             Never doubt words from OPRAH 👈

     Just be you, we have plenty of geniuses already... (fact bro!)

11 months & 22 days.

Well well... don't you think its too long. Yeah you might ask me, why did i mention the time duration. It has been solid 11months and 22days I survived/run my days without any meds. Here we start, have you seen some people, slightest headache, they'll stop by at nearest pharmacy, buy a panadol pack and consume it. Or some worst cases (from my view), they need a doctor visit for sure. Bare in mind that as long as you are being ignorant about your health, no medicine or doctor in the world can save you. True story huh...

Now as I always say, life is an experimental lab. Why do i say so? Have you succeeded on something difficult on the 1st time of trial. Perhaps no, maybe a yes. But mostly, we'll at least give it a try few times before the attempt is successful. Similarly, it is important to know how your body works. After all, health is wealth. And me, I wanted to know how far my body's endurance level is. Let me explain..

What is endurance?
➡️ the ability endure/ go through a difficult period or process without skipping any part of it.


And so I started this small scale of experiment on my body, I consumed less sugary food products, almost no ice waters, avoided late night food consumption, slept accordingly, core strengthening exercises, and most importantly good diet. And on my busy days, I shift onto relaxing mode activity. Out for a walk or a meet up. Window shopping.. hell yes. Again... trick your mind. Don't you think its favourable for us to know how our body works.
Test your ability to withstand pain. How long can you endure the pain. Recognise when you feel hungry, when do you feel sleepy or what can you do if you starts to feel unhappy. Ask & reward yourself.

Let's go back to the square, when you are having an headach, do not reach out for any meds. Hold on, go anywhere quite,  relax yourself, drink any fruit juice that you like(kindly avoid coffee, coffee is not a best mate here). Try to get nap. Or listen to any music that you like. Uh hun... well, all I'm saying is DIVERT YOUR MIND. Yes, keep saying to yourself that you are fine. The pain won't last long, have you heard of this term "what you hold onto the longest, is what you'll get". So focus on little things that divert your attention. 

Eventually your headache will vanish away. This trick or technique is applicable to any mild pain/health problem. Even fever, stomach ache, loss of appetite, insomnia and stress.

I feel my experience of 11months is worth sharing, especially when we learn to control our body and not being dependable to any meds. Consume good foods, healthy diet. In long term it'll reward your body.

Why i stopped the experiment? Just lil more to celebration of a year with out any med consumption, I got viral fever attack from one of my colleague and due to injection after a blood test. And so, the journey stopped. Nevertheless, I'll do this experiment more efficiently next.

How a lady should behave? ...

Have you ever wondered, why there are always certain rules or guideline how a lady should behave. Ever since we were young, there'll always be some voice, "Sit this way, walk straight, don't talk loudly.. and here we go, the most familiar ones.. "When will you ever learn to behave like a girl?" 
I mean who is the founder of the institution that 'How a lady should behave?' 

Well, it doesn't matter what race you are, being a Malaysian woman, there are few general rules that you need to obey if you want to survive or run your days till you are all independent. During that few phases, we object, we voice-out, we cry, we might just wonder why things are not easy with us, ladies. Have you been in such scenarios? 

➠ Let me tell you my point, 1st of all the border lines. There's no such thing as RULES or LAWS when the 1st hooman was created (this is one whole different topic), as humans started to learn what is development, as WE EVOLVE, and digest how important civilization is, and then the complications appear, layer by layer. Just like onions. LOL. 

One of my friend, back then during our UNI days told me that, 2 most wanted trades started the cycle of all business and merchandising at our present world. Before you read further, just have your own guesses. Tadaaa..

It was, POLITICS & PROSTITUTION. Booommm. (I laughed when he said that). Politics, itssss fine. But pros, really, i asked. Do your research to prove its not. 😉

How a lady behaves, it is her rights to determine it, rich or poor, white or black. And, when you actually realize that your body, mind, and heart is a place where wonders happen, you just want to keep a good track in those records. GOOD here, it is subjective huh.. You can be GOOD, if you are confident and ready to take charge of your moves. There is and there will NEVER be a guideline, how a lady should behave, YOU create it. You articulate the journey. You define who you are. Talking about this, there are plenty of woman who is unsure of their potential. When you admit you are weak, you become stronger... take your time to THINK. 💗

First Day

This will be fine collections of my reviews about, well anything that made me think. Maybe to make a change that we all supposed to. So, stay tuned. 😉